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Guys please be honest about it!!!!
11:31:06 PM Saturday Jun 9, 2007


:[ this question is for my DEAR raioosters ,It seems like I can[apos]t find a solution or else just an explanation for it ...but Iam wondering is every guy like that ...plzzz guys answer me with full honesty and just forget the sneazy show off to impress somebody and the game of being the perfect guy!!! In our daily life we meet new people every day,and girls particualrly ,and honestly we fantasize about things that we see even though we may be in relations... At the begining we[apos]r the angels especially if the girl seems too hard to get ,but once she gets attracted and she gave up herself and she get USED to us,and I mean US moroccans ..we put her aside and we keep acting the role of being there,at the same time when we see an other girl we feel bad to let it go and we play the same game ...finally we end up hanging out with many at the same time and it gets harder by the fact that we r trying to keep up with everyone and selfish to loose anyone on the first hand and knowing that someone are really attracted and she wouldn[apos]t let go easy makes it a big big headache... I just wanna from u guys ,because all my friends seemed to be like that ,even those who r old and married and they keep advicing u to get married and stuff ,when they see a beautiful girl u see their thurst and that they wish they can get her ... Guys I know u feel what I mean eventhough these words couldn[apos]t reach perfectly what Iam trying to express...Even foreigners in general, are telling me that all moroccans are cheaters (I honestly and to cirtain point bilieve it),but the funny things is that the one who told me this is still dating just moroccans and she ,herself turned into a cheater on her future husband but with who,with moroccans!!! GUYS ,are we sick ..How we r gonna get married ..is that a reflection of the way we lived in casa in the schools and stuff? plzzz guys be honest...

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2:22 pm    June 30, 2014

Ms Aliyah Sam message
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Hey up!

Cheating isn't just a Moroccan problem. Its a global problem. It boils down to insecurities. Not defining own identity and values. For me, I define my identity and values in God FIRST. Most people or men get their cheap thrills or quick fixes elsewhere, namely from the net where porn is freely available, this causing further delusions. There are also women that are equally insecure and give in to advances for attention. There are those that hold on to philosophies that they think justifies their actions. I think everybodies deluded to a point lol.

Bear in mind, all males and females are conditioned by their families, environment, society, media etc. Most people are afraid of responsibilities and commitments. These things do not come naturally, we learn to do them. If you're a believer of God then you know we're born into sin, so rebellion and disobedience comes to us so naturally, but notice how tough self discipline is. This is why we practice self discipline. It all boils down to our mindset. Mindset can always be adjusted, but you have got to want to do it.

As females we must remember not to be 'princesses' and 'helpless' lol, we just need to do things smarter and constantly check that we haven't deluded ourselves with the medias idea of romance, and the males have to remember that females aren't a slab of meat (lol) and re-enact the rubbish they watch on adulterated videos (take a guess who these creators of videos make their millions from?).

What ever we do, good or bad, have consequences. As long as we can accept that we can not control others and can only control ourselves. Lets just focus on strengthening and working on ourselves, we will attract likewise. We just need the wisdom to discern the difference between good and destructive behaviours. If you're going to get married, don't rush in and be a sucker for his/her charming words/behaviour and charade, look at the bigger picture, lol. Just keep yourself in check and avoid getting desperate or too attached emotionally, if you do then reel it in. Its tough but you can only learn from experience.

Not every guys are like that, thank GOD! My dad and my brother in law (my brother in law isn't Moroccan though, he's English). What I found most attractive in a guy is the strength of his character, not giving in to temptation no matter what it is: females, sports discipline, routine...I go all weak in the knees! lol. Remember guys and girls, character is something you build, not born with. ;)

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12:34 pm    July 12, 2008

M'rat Zizou message
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I commend the man who started this. This is a question that has upset me for a long time. I simply do not understand cheaters. The worst cheater is the married man, especially if he is married to a maghrebia or muslima. I mean do these men not fear Allah. How can they sleep at night knowing that God knows what they did, and for what?? one night or nights of fun???? Is it really worth it to ruin a marriage or a family. As for the women that cheat with a man knowing that he is married that is just disscusting, that really shows that they have no morals. If your wife or mate is not good enough that you need to cheat then just leave her. Every women feels the same way, once someone cheats on you the trust will never be regained no matter how much you try.
Allah hidi khalouk...
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1:56 am    July 18, 2007

message
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Well...the "Ch" word...I think that people should stop taking it personally when someone cheats on them...it has nothing to do with them...cheaters are the ones that have to live with it. I don't think it's a Moroccan guy thing although I agree with Nawal in this case Moroccan guys usually cheat to satisfy their insecurities like the friend that Ayur mentioned at the first post. Everybody knows and feels when they are being cheated on and it is up to that person to either come out of that relationship or keep pretending that everything is ok or be a victim in order to feel sorry for oneself. People are different and there are many facets to cheating I believe...some are bad and some are not that bad because of the type of relationship between the people, the circumstances etc.. the main thing for this culture is stop being in denial and tell the truth about EVERYTHING...

Thanks for listening~W

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10:13 am    July 13, 2007
NaWaL
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Men in Morocco have always had a hard time proving themselves in many ways, it s been always hard to get success, good jobs, financial and social independence, not to mention to impress good women and be with one, they had to match a certain criteria to win a bride.

Our economical, social and political standards oppressed not only women in general but most of men who s dreams were destroyed. So to vent the frustrations and to show off their Egos, Moroccan men tend to fill that gap, subconsciously….

So they become hunters for that boost they get pumped up with when they get the prey which is the woman. The more women they can seduce, the more powerful and (still got it ) attitude they feel. The more women is after them or kept on hold the more they feed from that power shot .

A man who can be with one woman, is a man who has already fulfilled his mission in life or almost there , knows what he wants and is content with it.

This feeling has been robbed from most Moroccans because of l9ahra d lbled, the patriarchal politics, the religious venues w zid w zid , it s in our subconscious.

I love Moroccan men don t get me wrong, but they have a lot of issues, from too much confidence in themselves or none at all. To lying to prove I don t know what.

So since the few good ones that were less stained by what I mentioned before are already taken , the good news is the bad one have been so easy to spot nowadays, we developed a sensor that help us stay away from them , LOL.

this is just a quick response , i m sure the subject needs a lot more to talk about , but i wrote what my mind could come up with.

It was a very good and honest question, I admire the gentleman who posted it , i could nt read it and write right away.

I can finally say, don t worry about the rest of your fellow brothers and what they do, just worry how you can change yourself, why can t u be satisfied? What r u looking for? why do u need wasting your time and the time of so many girls , instead of savoring life with one decent, loving lady ? try to commit, for a change.

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1:14 am    June 27, 2007

abdelilah message
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The lack of trust is beyond dating and sexuality. It is a socio-political phenomenon in Morocco.
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Nmirid
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so buttom line there's no cats fight here :tdown: :Grrrr: :tdown: :Grrrr:

well, I guess I came to the wrong corner...someone told me I will find a cat fight here...I guess it's in the next bloc...let me go check it :french:

change is goooooooood especially when it's positive :righton:

Good luck to everybody :)

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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no cat fights i've just told her that i'm happy cuz i can tell she've matured and changed to a good way good luck lovely
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
lovely
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Nope... You gotta check your nose 3end l 7eddad... lol :smash:
Yallah t'hella... One day you'll all end up turning the switch at one point or another...
Allah yjib Lljamee3 lli fih lkheer
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Nmirid
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hmmmmmm
do I smell cats fight in here or what?
hhhhhhhhhhhhh just kidding girls ;)
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
lovely
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I don't wanna get into details of what you mean by your post girly...
I've turned the page and wish everyody best of luck
Salam :smile:
Lovely
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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glad to hear you've made some changes a lovely and even happier that the changes are bieng more positive good luck:) :tup:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
lovely
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I only read the first posts...
l7amdoulillah I have no more commitment issues... I guess I did turn the switch.... I'm starting to wonder... Am I normal? I don't care how cute a guy is any longer... Wel 7amdulillah actually.... I've been blessed... I used to still look... Not to the point where I'd cheat or give up on someone, daba I don't have that urge of even thinking, hey.... This guy is cute wella tta shi 7aja... Hope it will last...A bit over a month and still.... going...
Lovely
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
abdelilah
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ana w sfouf makanetfarkouch a 3ammi!

:tup:

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
wedadeya
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You 2!!! I LUVVVVV Sfof as soon as ramadan is almost here im :grin: i still have a lil left i think its time 2 go finish it lol

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Cool_Gal
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:roll:
[i:c9c801e470]I really like sfouf[/i:c9c801e470]

Cg :cool:

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
EMINEM4U
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i hate all of the hippocrite raioosters al mounafikin bel arabiya taarabet
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Ayur
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me need casablancaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa:(
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Natasha
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Oh u made think of that song honesty is like a melody lalalallala
don't worry, me too am going crazy with the midterms. I need vacations...
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
bou_rass_1
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:tup: thank u marrokiya , u r right and that's why I decided to write just about the funny staff and may be u guys have noticed that :???: ...mabqat honesty!!! :roll:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
marokiya
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ha nariiiii 3la 3jaja mnouwdin.....bourass meskin mab9ach rje3 lhad sujet......rej3ol moudou333. lmarrok dima kharjin 3la sujet....lol l mouhim bourass khouya i agree with u theres lotta cheaters drari ou bnat....lol ou mab9awch wlad/bnass nass had liyam.....cheating is addictive b7al ligalet lalla chaima ( twe7echtek a chaimaa) and u can always like someone else while ur in a "serious" relationship....but again...if ur with someone and u like someone else,,,,theres something wrong...look for ur soulmate.....soulmate wakah tji lik jennifer lopez tgoul lik haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal 3ar tjouwej biya u wont give a damn....lol ( chwiya zett fih ) walakin u get the point....ou lay sehel 3la l jami333 ou ye3ti koulla wa7ed 3la 9edd neytoooooo ya rabbbbbbb zouzou gouli m3aya ameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn....
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
roccanskater
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walla rakoum wddrtouni
katzrbou
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Ayur
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hehehehehehehe, ma tebbe3tich lfilm
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
roccanskater
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achkounahia?
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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dart rasha masm3atch ayur o bkat ghada f7alha x(
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Ayur
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M.G; aji wellah 7etta t7eydi jellabiytek, mer7ba mer7ba
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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safi ayur 9ba7iti....hani mchit
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Ayur
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Abdou mab9itich te7chem
MG, arey7i abenti lanebda nchtef :french: :french:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Natasha
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:lol: :lol: MG
Abdelilalh ewwwwww!!!!
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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nari dem haha 7yedt talonnnnn o ghadi tbda tchyer 7diw ryouskom:D :smash:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RAJAWI
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Gheltiha ghed elwatan a 3ammi. PEACE OUT RAJAWI

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
abdelilah
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wa kayn demm a Rajawi gheer skout walakin had ddem dyal Fams machi dyal lfasma. wa kad abanat ihda al fatataini 3an 3udwaniyyatihaa fi hada al wakti mina chahr wa sarat kalghouli heena yankaddu 3ala farisatihi.
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Natasha
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Don't worry my lil son! Mama Super Natasha is here to the rescue!
VLAN! BOUM! DERDELAF! GAUCHE!DROITE!COUDE!PIED!
Voila :)
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Ayur
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hanyatoune, nsiti l3echra wejayba liya leghribe yeslekhni :angel: :angel:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RAJAWI
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wach kain chi dem wela walou ila makain dem kif walou donc. PEACE OUT RAJAWI
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
abdelilah
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Mr gossiping:

Weeely koun chefti ZZohra achnou daret a khti wellah maneshaaab dakchi koullou ghadi ykhrouj mennha. Belhak Natasha jebdaaat m3aha bwahed lbounya tawwellaaat ZZohra katgoulleeehoum ana hiyya miss monde.
:lol:

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Natasha
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:lol: :lol:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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daba njib weld 3zouz yslkhk a bo trima o natasha mankhafouch??? :smash:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Ayur
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MG, amalek sketti, safi tekhle3ti

Nat, thx beauty :rainbow:

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Natasha
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:lol: :lol:
yes. Ya Moroccan girlie let my child alone!! yallah!!! :Grrrr: :smash:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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natasha hia mamak... 88o
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Ayur
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MG, cheftek kib7ale ila tme3ti fiya, 7di rassek rani ngoulha lmama
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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2 years younger my Botty :blush: :brow:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Ayur
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zouzou, i'm just 2 years old, so notin wrong if i go naked :french:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RAJAWI
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La a sidi ghadin nkhalik FAROUK imchi houwa elawel, PEACE OUT RAJAWI

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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hay hay walah tanjbed taloni nariii hbibi farouk zadni fi msn daba mfhmt walou pchakhhhh
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Negotiator
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Zouzo , safi mant7amawch, rajawi sir ntta lewell, w3ad men ba3d nemchi ana... wenchoufou had lhadra dialha fin rada tkharejha...

wa dwiw 3lina w jiw 3lina...

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
abdelilah
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waaach ttouma gha nghebou 3leekoum tnawwdulina le3jaaaaj. We ttiyya zouzou lach baghaaah yetghatta kayshableeek lebrouda lli 3andkoum kaina 3andhoum wella.
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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ayur mankhafouch ana gelb el genfoud a li dayr mika dial 7 deriyal sir lbess kilot o aji hder m3aya:D
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Ayur
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MG, nti 3andek soft heart!!??? makatmerguich!!??? ya galbe l9enfoude :french: :french:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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malkom 3liya ana tantgleb ;( safi jr7to lia my soft heart malkom t7amito mankhafouch :smash:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RAJAWI
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MG, 3lach kat9albi 3a goulilililililililili
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3ammi hadik raha kat9aleb 3la rassou. PEACE OUT RAJAWI

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Chaimouma
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this topic is very intersting and Si Bourass ma3endi mangoul you brought it up.
Unfortunately, not only the guys are like that..so if it makes you feel any better a lot of girls are like that and I myself "let's just put it this way" wasn't quite faithful in some of my relationships. This so called syndrome is really bad and actually addictive. You don't get to the point of realizing how great your partner is until you end loosing her.
My only advice would be to set your goals up front and decide what you want to do. if you wanna fool around and have girls all over the place then you're obviously not ready for a commitment. it's ok don't settle down for one girl and have all the fun you want and make sure you don't break anyone's heart.
if for any reasons, you do wanna settle down then just keep it in mind and try to find the perfect match. i know it's not always easy cuz you might end up liking someone else while you're in a serious relationship..that's when you realize that you didn't find your soulmate yet!!
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Negotiator
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MG, 3lach kat9albi 3a goulilililililililili

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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rajawi tar lih rasso hmmmm moshkila hadi big papa ash hadchi.... :tdown:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RAJAWI
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A la yah rassou ma6arch rah ba9i fblastou. PEACE OUT RAJAWI
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RuiJay
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Rajawi !!! "mamatch ghir tar lih rassou" :french: :french:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RAJAWI
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I didnt say it. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: PEACE OUT RAJAWI

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RuiJay
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dunno take it wrong bro !! that's was a common moroccan proverb !!! galouha ga3 in public fi film dial fatima khair !!! nssiti ??
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Nmirid
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Ruijay tadir lwasakh rah denya mkhelta we nass galsin m3a wladhoum :smash: :smash:

This is a family show Broo :angel:
LOL

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RuiJay
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rajawi, rak tewelti 3la derri a sa7bi ! goul "lli drebna lih 9a3ou mayhamna sda3ou"..je pense que ce proverbe contient la conclusion !! :french:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RAJAWI
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BOU-RASS here is the breakdown in my opinion and again this is just RAJAWI'S opinion so it should count for everything "just jokking".
Anywho, I think as you said it women always play hard to get at the beginning and since men like challenges and once we get the prize we are like DAMN is that what i was hustling after NOOOOO i need to find another challenge and had those women not played hard to get at the beginning we wouldnt consider it a challenge and we would've most definetly consider it as a beginning of a relationship but i guess that's the nature of the beast. PEACE OUT RAJAWI
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RuiJay
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ameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeene :)
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
MoroccanGIrly
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ruijay that;s sooooooooooooooo sweet lah ykaml 3lihom bekhir incha alah o lah yjib lia o all the girlies hna shi weld nasss o drari chi bnat nass yalah bghit nsm3 wa7ed ameeeeeeeeeeeeeenn :tup: n
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
RuiJay
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bourass....i feel the same way exactly !! so, don't blame yourself, it's natural character..we just have to be sometimes strong to be faithful.
i had a moroccan friend who lived with me in the past..he had a fillancee in Italia, ach ghangoullik? 3iyaw maydourou bih derriate w houwa n'est pas la !! tbarkallah 3lih, wellaw ga3 kays7abhoum gay..walakine his love to that moroccan girl in italy was strong...sma7 ga3 fi green card and he went to Italy to live with her !! :tup:
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Nmirid
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Bourass khouya I don't think cheating on your GF/wife is related to a specific ethinic group or nationality. everybody from everywhere cheats. the person who told u why Moroccan guys cheat a lot just said that bc her experience with Moroccans was more than others. believe me she would have said the same about Latinos, Americans, Black people, Europeans..etc
As of the way u feel and all that...don't take it too hard on yourself, especially that u r not married yet. we are humans after all, we can't control our feelings, however, we can control our actions. I don't believe that any relationship is serious until rings are wore ( Marriage)...and when a guy/girl reach that level, then they should stop fooling around and playing games and starrring at oher people, bc they chose one person to be with for the rest of their lives and they should stand up to their commitment.
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
abdelilah
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mabkaat la flehya la walou al goat has lehya a bba Ayur. We hadak shaybek jalCanada we chaaf zzine a weldi believe me faita lmeereekaaan. Ila mcha L Montreal mchaat 3la 3ainou dbaba kain al jamaaal. we derriyyates belia tahiyaa allah yester.

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Cool_Gal
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:[ That's sad.

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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
Ayur
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bourass; i know what u feel man!!! but lemme tell u something
i had a friend, LE7YA he can't even say hi to a girl, makayehderch m3a derryate, wa7ed nnhare he went to Canada for studies, derri wella obs?d? sexuel!!! kane kayjib chi derrya le ddare we kayedreb liya telephone bach yegoule liya rah mbeyyet derrya!!! mab9ate la le7ya la dine la walou!!!! makhella la canadiya, la japponiya, la walou ....
and when he decided to Marry, mcha kdebe 3la wa7ed bente nnass, gale liha rah meskine makaye3ref 7etta chi derrya mene 9bele:D
lmouhime had derri wekha tzewwej we 3andou wa7ed dririya sghire (tbarkellah) he still cheat his wife with all nationalities!!
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11:31 pm    June 9, 2007
interesting
bou_rass_1
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:[ this question is for my DEAR raioosters ,It seems like I can't find a solution or else just an explanation for it ...but Iam wondering is every guy like that ...plzzz guys answer me with full honesty and just forget the sneazy show off to impress somebody and the game of being the perfect guy!!!
In our daily life we meet new people every day,and girls particualrly ,and honestly we fantasize about things that we see even though we may be in relations... At the begining we'r the angels especially if the girl seems too hard to get ,but once she gets attracted and she gave up herself and she get USED to us,and I mean US moroccans ..we put her aside and we keep acting the role of being there,at the same time when we see an other girl we feel bad to let it go and we play the same game ...finally we end up hanging out with many at the same time and it gets harder by the fact that we r trying to keep up with everyone and selfish to loose anyone on the first hand and knowing that someone are really attracted and she wouldn't let go easy makes it a big big headache...
I just wanna from u guys ,because all my friends seemed to be like that ,even those who r old and married and they keep advicing u to get married and stuff ,when they see a beautiful girl u see their thurst and that they wish they can get her ...
Guys I know u feel what I mean eventhough these words couldn't reach perfectly what Iam trying to express...Even foreigners in general, are telling me that all moroccans are cheaters (I honestly and to cirtain point bilieve it),but the funny things is that the one who told me this is still dating just moroccans and she ,herself turned into a cheater on her future husband but with who,with moroccans!!!

GUYS ,are we sick ..How we r gonna get married ..is that a reflection of the way we lived in casa in the schools and stuff? plzzz guys be honest...

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